Authentic Attraction with NLP

"For Men Only: Wake Up to Your True Nature and Experience the Ultimate in "Inner Game"

• 3 day workshop with Jamie Smart
• Dates: 5th - 7th December, 2008
• Location: London, venue to be confirmed
  

Watch & listen to what delegates from the latest Authentic Attraction with NLP Programme are saying (WARNING: Contains some strong language):

On a recent course, I was asked "What first sparked your interest in NLP?"

I explained that back in 1996 I'd read an article in the Sunday papers about NLP and Seduction. I must admit that I was taken by the idea of being able to attract any woman I wanted. But I was in love & newly married, so I didn't pursue it.

8 Years later, in 2004, my marriage broke up, & my world fell apart.

• I was emotionally devastated, grief-stricken & lonely. I saw a bleak future living an unhappy, lonely life.

• I had insecurities about a variety of things - my looks, my age, myself - I was worried that I'd never be able to attract an attractive woman again.

• I didn't actually have the first clue about how to attract women, & I was terrified of approaching them (I'd relied on 'getting lucky' in the past, but I didn't feel lucky anymore). I had no idea what to say, or how to spark attraction.

Yet at the same time, I knew intuitively that I was being presented with an opportunity.

I had an inner knowing that whispered "This is an opportunity to engage with the next stage of your life's journey, & have an adventure. Plus, you're going to become successful with women in the process."

So I made a decision.

I said to myself, "You've got to do whatever it takes to sort out your love-life, & start getting the results with women you desire."

"When It Comes To Dating & Relationships - Are you still stuck getting poor to modest results? Jamie Smart is one of the top NLP Trainers I know in the UK who is passionate about sharing (information) the key to unlocking your new future. Taking action can open the door to many new possibilities....And the life that you really want to live. Isn't It About Time To Make That Change...Now."
Steve P., Owner - The Trance Works (Private Hypnosis Clinic)
(Steve P. from Neil Strauss' "The Game")

There are all sorts of things I wanted. I don't know if you can identify with all of them, but I'll bet some of them ring a few bells. If you're on the same page I was, here's how you'll know. Have you ever wanted to...

• Feel confident approaching any woman anywhere. Virtually all men suffer from 'approach anxiety', & I wanted to be able to master mine, & speak confidently with any woman.

• Attract the women you really desire , whether for casual encounters or loving relationships that stand the test of time.

• Feel a real sense of abundance & choice with women. Maybe you're like I was, finding yourself 'settling', or afraid to leave an unhappy relationship. I wanted to feel a sense of freedom, to be able to choose.

• Be deeply authentic, the real you, not having to rely on tricks & manipulation. I found that 'the seduction community' was full of ways to trick women into bed, but I hated the idea of not being myself.

• Have the kind of empowering beliefs & high self-esteem of the genuinely attractive man, to be the kind of man who attracts women automatically.

• Find your genuine purpose, the "sat-nav for the soul" that women are magnetically drawn to.

• Live a full, fulfilling, happy, attractive life. After all, the bottom line is that women are attracted to men who are living amazing lives.

• Live in your own reality , one that serves, nourishes & fulfils you. If you want to experience real authenticity & success, it's time to let go of the unsatisfying reality you may have inherited without even realising it!

I started by looking at the NLP and Seduction material that had first motivated me to explore this field more deeply.

But I was in for a shock, because something big had changed!

You see, during the 8 years since I'd first heard of NLP, I'd developed & grown as a human being. I was living my life by a set of core values.

I cringed at the thought of using NLP & hypnosis to manipulate women into bed! While part of me liked the idea of having that power, I intuitively knew that every time you 'trick' a woman into bed, you chip away at your own self-esteem.

But I discovered there is a place in NLP for this. You can use NLP & Hypnosis to transform YOURSELF into a man who's incredibly attractive to women.

So I began exploring, & I was amazed what I found. I discovered that...

• 99% of what I'd thought to be true about men, women, sexual attraction & relationships turned out to be complete nonsense!

• I knew nothing about how women like to be communicated with, or why.

• That an entire generation of men (including myself) had been raised by well-meaning women to be approval-seeking mama's boys.

As a young man, I was never particularly successful with women. I had some amazing girlfriends (like many guys, I used to "get lucky" from time to time), but that was just it - I thought I was lucky. I didn't know how or why it happened, & felt fortunate to get the results I did.

But here's the most amazing thing of all: it turns out that when I did "get lucky", it wasn't luck at all. It's because I was getting in touch with a "me" that has existed for thousands of years.

You see, we all come from a long line of human beings who managed to attract partners & mate with each other. Every man & woman contains a powerful blueprint of how to attract members of the opposite sex deep within them, & it's been refined over thousands of generations.

In my own case, those behaviours only emerged when I was drunk, & I didn't even realise what I was doing. When I hit the dating scene again, aged 40, I no longer drank alcohol, so I had to find new ways to access those deep, instinctive abilities that all men have, instincts that have been covered over with years of social programming.

As it turns out, I was in for an even bigger shock!

What I discovered was that one of the most attractive qualities of all is being a mature, masculine man, & this isn't something that can be faked! At a certain point in a boy's journey to manhood, his deep masculine energies have to be activated, or he remains a boy.

Tribes, communities & societies throughout history have all had rituals for activating masculine energy. They developed these processes because they intuitively knew that the journey to manhood is a vital transition that must not be left to chance.

However, in Western society, we've lost touch with these processes. Our boys are raised by women, usually without the influence of strong, mature, masculine men. To make matters worse, men have received all kinds of conflicting information about how they "should" behave towards women.

Perversely, the results are as frustrating to most women as they are to the men!

We see the devastating effects caused by the absence of these processes on a daily basis:

• Rampant addiction to drugs, alcohol, work & pornography
• Men being killed, victims of gang violence & street fights etc
• Men living empty, directionless lives in anonymous "cubicle farms"
• Suicides (young men are the highest risk group for this tragedy)
• Women & men know that something is missing, but they aren't even sure what it is (hint: mature masculinity is what's missing)

"If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will set you free. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you."

If you've ever had a woman you were really attracted to describe you as "such a nice guy" or "a sweet guy", before crushing your hopes with the news that she "just wants to be friends", you've experienced this first-hand.

I explored countless hours of material, modelled the masters, hung out with "naturals", experimented & refined. And what I found was amazing:

When it comes to attracting women, who you are being is even more important than what you are doing.

You see, women want men. They crave that combination of strength, purpose, passion, awareness & authenticity that a mature masculine man exudes.

The problem most guys have when they are faced with this is "Great, but how do you change who you are being?"

It took me three years and all my NLP skills to discover an answer to that question that I feel congruent about passing on to you.

To put it simply: We've all been hypnotised to a greater or lesser extent by well-meaning parents, teachers, politicians, priests, marketers, media etc. Hypnotised into suppressing our true nature, the very nature that women find most attractive.

It's time to get un-hypnotised, as you wake up to your true nature & experience the ultimate in "inner-game"...

Authentic Attraction with NLP

From the 5th - 7th December 2008, I will be taking a group of men on the journey of a lifetime. I am entirely congruent when I say that for this group of men, it may be the most important, powerful, transformational experience of their lives.

This amazing 3-day experience isn't just a workshop. It's a modern urban ritual that will activate your masculine energies & connect you with your deepest authenticity & purpose.

I want you to know this: You are here for a reason. You matter. You have a purpose.

When you discover & embrace that purpose, you INSTANTLY become more attractive to women, without DOING anything.

Of course, there will be plenty of "doing", too. But this won't be a "sitting in the woods banging on a drum" kind of process. It will be conducted in the real world (it will also be conducted in the seminar room, because we've got lots to get through).

This is about real-world attraction & real-world change. Don't even think about attending if you want your life to stay the same. This programme is only for men who have the courage to change.

Here are just a few of the things you're going to be experiencing:

On Being Real

• The un-hypnosis starts on the first day , with powerful metaphors & insights to start peeling back the layers of unreality & making our way towards the real you & your reality.

• If you haven't been getting what you want, & haven't been able to figure out why, you're going to find out. More importantly, you'll discover how you can change it, quickly.

• We'll clear out the symbolic & semantic blockages that prevent men from having the success with women they desire. Have you ever found yourself putting in more & more effort but getting little or no return? If so, these blockages are almost certainly a big part of the problem.

• Did you know that it's often easier for an average-looking guy to attract extremely attractive women than to attract average-looking women? You may already know the theory behind why this is, but there's a piece of the puzzle that has nothing to do with them & everything to do with you, & when you know it, everything changes!

• By the way, I know you may be thinking "If only I could attract lots of women, I'd be happy", but please believe me when I tell you that's not the case. Here's a hint - do you realise that you can never get enough of second best? That's why so many guys who get the ability to attract lots of women still end up unfulfilled. You'll learn how to avoid this trap.

• Did you know that it's OK to want what you want? Whether your idea of heaven is an amazing woman to settle down with or a fling with the Norwegian volleyball team, YOU HAVE PERMISSION. As long as it's legal, I'll help you get what you want.

• You'll get an introduction to "sleight of mouth", the legendary NLP toolset for helping you unwire your limiting beliefs (you can share this with other people too, to help them change their limiting beliefs. I can't tell you just how incredibly satisfying this is).

• Better yet, you'll get the chance to transform your most unhelpful limiting beliefs relating to this area of your life, when I do Sleight of Mouth with you.

• Perhaps best of all, you're going to go "Beyond Belief", & connect with your amazing true self. Once you realise you can do this, there's no need to change your beliefs - you just go to the place where the limits aren't!

• Once you go beyond belief, you'll startto connect with your deep authenticity & purpose. I'm looking forward to being there with you when this happens.

• You'll be catapulted into your body, as you learn the most powerful set of techniques I know to massively increase your physical confidence (amazingly, your risk of being attacked in the street will be reduced by 50% by the time you finish).

• You're going to meet "the animal" - the "you" who has been developing for thousands of years, & who knows everything you need to know about how to defend yourself, your loved ones, & how to attract women.

• Women are very attracted to guys who are "comfortable in their own skin" - it's as if they can feel what you're feeling. You're going to be well on your way to being one of these guys.

• We're going to heal your relationships with the female of the species. Lot 's of men have an unconscious anger at women that keeps them away. (Hint: if you find yourself getting angry or frustrated by seemingly irrational female behaviour, I'm talking to YOU).

• The positive sexual attraction shadow. Do you realise that you're more attractive to women than you think you are? Discover how the strong, almost dizzying attraction you feel for certain women could be one of your most powerful resources!

• You're going to discover exactly what you've been putting into your love-life, & why you've been experiencing the results you have (or the lack of results). Then you're going to discover how you can custom-design the happy, exciting love-life you desire, & start taking steps to bring it into reality (Hint: it's closer than you think).

• The great thing is, you're going to learn to experience all of this from a place of honesty, integrity, courage & congruence. No more BS.

• Best of all, you'll learn the secret behind how you can really enjoy your interactions with women, & have fun developing yourself in this area. This is the key you need to unlock high levels of positive motivation.

• One of the coolest things is that all these inner game secrets apply to the other aspects of your life too. Don't be too surprised when you find your life getting better & better in every area, as you experience more passion, excitement, happiness & success every day.

On Doing Real

• You're going to discover how to approach & attract women, authentically, without manipulation.

• Detachment from outcome is one of the keys to success with women, yet it's one of the hardest things for guys to get (if you've ever been frustrated when someone told you not to try so hard, you'll know what I'm talking about). By the time you go to sleep at the end of Day 1, you'll have detached from outcome.

• I'll show you how you can switch off your internal dialogue, that annoying voice that makes up reasons not to approach.

• Maybe for the first time, you're going to find out how it feels to have fun approaching women, while you have an absolute blast with a group of strong, authentic guys (this is SO important. If you want to do something more, the key is to enjoy it more. You're going to find out how).

• You're also going to learn some techniques from NLP & other fields that you can use going forward as you continue developing & transforming yourself.

• You're going to learn the art of genuine qualification.

• They say that real change is when you see the same old things differently. You're going to be able to approach any woman, anywhere. You may still have what some guys call 'approach anxiety', but you'll experience it completely differently.

• A method for asking a covert question that you can use to find out if a woman wants you to kiss her, without fear of discomfort or embarrassment for you or her (she won't even know she's told you, but you'll know!) This is really just a set of training wheels, because before long, you'll discover your own inner-sense that lets you know when a woman's ready to be kissed.

• Not only that, but you'll discover a powerful inner-frame that will ensure you actually go for the first kiss when it's time (women HATE it when a guy doesn't kiss them when it's time, & they rarely give you a second chance).

• You'll discover a simple exercise to massively reduce the fear of rejection, & replace it with a sense of comfort.

• You'll learn my favourite fun, powerful energiser for getting your energy up & overcoming approach anxiety (there's one you can do by yourself, in the daytime, one for the night-time, & some fantastic ones you can do with a group of friends).

• The secret of staying "on the outside", watching how the woman you're talking to is responding to what you're saying (most guys are stuck inside their heads, thinking about what they're going to say next, but you're going to learn how to stay out of your head & just "let it roll").

• Powerful "pre-frames" , observations you can make, & things you drop into conversations that let a woman know that you're not the kind of guy who ends up in the "let's just be friends" zone.

"I have always thought I had a natural way with women but spending time with Jamie and the insights he has has allowed me to get to new levels of external success and inner fullfillment.  Jamie you are not only one of the most knowledgable guys I know in getting this area of my life handled, you are also one of the most fun.  Thanks for all your help."
John W, Internet Entrepreneur

On Real Transformation

• Have you ever heard the phrase "Welcome to my reality"? You're going to design your reality & your relationship to it. Then you're going to start living it!

• One of the things I'm most excited about is this: for most people, the effects of "personal development" training courses wear off over time. But we're going to be building in "recursive feedback loops", which mean that the effects of what you're learning will get more powerful as time passes.

• A year from now, when you're experiencing the kinds of success you want, not only with women, but in every area of your life, you'll look back on your decision to be part of this programme as a turning point in your life.

• "Stop living in your head & start living from your heart!" I heard this over & over again, but I didn't think I knew how. You're going to discover why living from your heart is so important, & how to do it.

• While the focus of this programme is manhood, inner game, purpose & attracting women, what you're really going to find is yourself. Your deep self, the you that's been developing over thousands of generations. This is the "you" that canattract women naturally and automatically.

So who is this for?

This programme is only for men who aren't willing to settle for second best...

• Divorced men , who have found themselves back "on the market", with rusty or nonexistent dating skills.

• Members of 'the seduction community' who are unsatisfied with using "canned" material & inauthentic routines.

• Men who want to be able to attract women they desire. Whether you're new to the dating "scene", or have been doing this for years & are ready to raise your game.

• Men who feel trapped in unhappy relationships, or relationships where the attraction is fading. This programme is aimed at single guys, but let's face it - if you're in a relationship & your partner seems to be becoming less attracted to you, more distant etc, it's time to take action (everyone's perception of you changes when you have choices - you'll even perceive yourself differently).

• Men who feel "off-track", & deeply desire a sense of purpose & direction in their lives.

• Guys who have limiting beliefs they want to get "handled" (you might be surprised to discover how many guys who have great skill with women still have insecurities & limiting beliefs they haven't been able to get beyond).

• Men who have realised that it isn't where you are in your journey that's important - it's about knowing where you want to go, who you want to come with you, & how you can enjoy it, every step of the way.

And Your Trainer Is...

...Jamie Smart, one of the world's most acclaimed and respected NLP trainers as well as the CEO and Founder of Salad. Jamie has a passion for language, learning and teaching. This is evident in Salad’s NLP Practitioner and training courses as well as in Salad's array of world renowned NLP and Hypnosis products, including Ericksonian Hypnosis Cards, NLP Coaching Cards and Irresistible Influence Cards.

Jamie has been taught by some of the best NLP trainers in the world including the founders of NLP, Richard Bandler and John Grinder, as well as highly skilled and innovative trainers such as Robert Dilts, Chris Hall, and Joseph Riggio. 

What you may not know is that until a few years ago, Jamie was something of a "Clark Kent" when relating to women romantically. He's spent the last few years sorting this area of his life out, & has developed powerful processes for helping men with their personal transformation & evolution in this area.

There are only 24 public places remaining on this programme. For many guys, just the opportunity to spend time observing & talking with this group of people would be worth the price of admission, but you're going to get so much more.

We're going to be filming this one-of-a-kind workshop, so I'm keen to ensure a full house. For this reason, I'm going to go one step further and offer an early bird discount of £300. You can save £300 and pay the low price of just £697 + VAT when you book before 5th October, 2008.

Click 'add to cart' or call 0845 650 1045 to secure your place. Please note that easy payment plans are available:

Option a) Pay in full £697 + VAT = £818.98

Option b) Pay £318.98 deposit then £100 per month for the following 5 months

Option c) Pay £136.50 per month for 6 months

If you want to pay in full, then you can do it online, just click ‘add to cart’

If you want to do one of the payment plans, please ring the Salad office on 0845 650 1045 to reserve your place now.

The programme will take place on 5th - 7th December in London, venue to be confirmed. 

I look forward to meeting you there.

Best wishes for your happy success

Your friend

Jamie Smart

PS Take action immediately to secure your place & avoid missing out on this once-in-a-lifetime experience.

PPS The programme is from 5th - 7th December 2008 - that's very soon, so clear those dates in your diary & either click 'add to cart' or ring  0845 650 1045 to book your place now.