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While the “success frame” goals can be quite exciting & motivational, they also run the risk of activating the succeed/fail polarity – fear of failure. While it’s really useful to set big motivational goals, it may be worth then reframing them as action-oriented experiments. Why? Because an experiment means something different. The purpose of an experiment is for discovering something, learning something about the world (and yourself). 2) For some change you want to make or goal you want to achieve, find out what happens when you frame it as an action-oriented experiment. “OK” I hear you say “But what if the thing I’m afraid of failing it is bigger than an experiment. I want to embark on a new career, but I’m worried that if I screw it up, I’ll wind up broke & at the bottom of the career ladder.” I was saying goodbye to a friend of mine recently, & I said “Take care.” He replied to me “Don’t take care – have an adventure.” In cases where an experiment isn’t quite enough, you may need something bigger. An adventure! You can always have an adventure It’s possible to frame any endeavour as an adventure. · Want to try out a new career? You may love it, or you may loathe it, but either way, you’ll have an adventure. · Want to quit your job & sail around the world? You’ll have an adventure. · Want to start your own business? You’ll have an adventure. · Want to leave a relationship? Or start a new one? You’ll have an adventure. These days, I see my life as one big adventure. The great thing about this is that it doesn’t require things to turn out a certain way. After all, adventures are full of twists & turns of one sort or another. 3) If you wish, you might like to find out what happens when you frame life as an adventure.
“Life is either a daring
adventure or nothing. Security does not exist in nature, nor do the children
of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run
than exposure.” Have a fun & exciting week! Best
wishes
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1.
Patterns for opening up multiple communication channels
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2.
Defensiveness-busters - Three patterns that will package your messages in ways that
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3.
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4.
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5.
Mind-reading -
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6.
Frame-setters & Direction-setters -
Use "unconscious mind logic"
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7.
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8.
I Don't Know... -
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9.
Quotes - A
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10.
Tag Questions -
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11.
Presupposition -
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Stacking Patterns -
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