Last week I revealed a powerful tool for inner
transformation. This week, I'm going to share a powerful approach for
creating the life you desire, & a lot more quickly than you might have
thought possible. In fact, I'd like you to stop for a moment, & think of
something that you may have dismissed as “just a dream” until now. Hold onto
that, because in this article, you're going to discover how you can make it
a reality, in as little as 90 days!
I've spent the last few days in
Brussels & Amsterdam, with
some guys who were speaking at the Real Man Conference. We were all out to
dinner one night, when suddenly I stopped in my tracks: here I was, sitting
& having dinner with some of the most amazing “ladies men” in the world.
What do I mean by “ladies men”? Men who are loved by women. These guys don't
lie, cheat or use women. They don't exploit women. Instead, they're honest,
open & direct, & the women I've spoken to find it very refreshing.
I was speaking with Zan Perrion (described by the New
York Times as “the world's greatest seducer”), when he made a startling
claim: he said “You can create the life you desire in 90 days”, as long as
you're willing to be bold.
In a nutshell, his approach is this:
1) Imagine the person you want to be & the
life you want to
be living in
detail:
·
Where on the
planet do you want to be?
·
Who do you
want to be spending time with?
·
What do you
want to be doing?
·
How do you
want to be living?
·
What kinds of
experiences do you want to be having?
·
What kind of
feelings do you want to be having?
·
etc
2) For 15 minutes when you wake up in the
morning, & for
another 15
minutes before you go to sleep,
vividly
imagine that
you are living the life you desire. See what
you see, hear
what you hear & feel what you'll feel.
On other
occasions, I've heard Zan say “Imagine the person you want to be, then erase
everything in your life that isn't that.”
When I
spoke to him about it, he told me that he doesn't recommend planning in much
more detail than that. Just keep focusing on the “what” & let the “how” take
care of itself.
Of course
its still necessary to take action. In my own experience, I find it useful
to act on my “intuitive impulses” (as Joe Vitale calls them), those sparks
of inspiration that guide you when you're going for what you really want.
The funny
thing is, as I was talking to Zan, I had a sudden realisation. Back in
April, I was being coached by Michael Neill (ace success coach) who asked me
what I really wanted to be doing. I was having trouble answering, so he
asked me what I'd do if I had millions of pounds & no obligations. I said I
wanted to travel the world hanging out with the world's greatest ladies men,
sorting out my lovelife & helping men & women to realise how amazing they
are.
It hit me
like a bombshell! I started focusing on it with Michael in April.
In June I
ran my first Authentic Attraction with NLP course.
In July I
was a guest speaker at Steve P's event in Berlin.
In August I
ran my second Authentic Attraction programme.
This month
I shared a platform with Zan & Johnny Soporno in Brussels, then spent the
weekend hanging out with them in Amsterdam!
The Steve P
event where all this started taking off was 90 days from the day I got in
touch with my passion & decided what I really wanted, back in April.
This stuff
really works!
By the way, in October 2008, we're going to be doing the first module of the
Salad NLP Practitioner training (Master Prac starts in April 2009). This is
the last time we will be running the programme in its current form, so if
you want to benefit from lots of personal attention from your trainers, as
well as get a powerful group training in a modular approach to help you
develop your skills & live the life of your dreams, go to
NLP Practitioner Training 2008
Have a great week!
To your success!
Your friend
Jamie
Jamie
Smart
Jamie Smart
director of training
jamie.smart@saladltd.co.uk
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